Caveat Emptor for those of you who do not know is Latin for the ever so famous phrase, “buyer beware!” This phrase I feel can be applied to the situation many young women will be facing during their college years. To rush or not to rush? That is a good question! Sororities are an extremely popular group to join upon entering college but it is a big deal and something that requirements a lot of time, commitment, and worst of all money. Don’t get me wrong there can be some positive things to joining a sorority but don’t be blindsided but their shiny hair, smiling faces, and pointy toed heels!
Upon joining a typical sorority you can kiss your free time good bye. All sororities that I know of require you to go through “new member education” which can be up to six weeks (give or take a few)! This is also what is known as “pledging.” During this time period you will most likely be required to learn all about your sorority’s history, any information concerning, all of the girls in it (mine had around 60 when I first joined), and all of the other new girls that are going through new member education too. You will most likely have to give up most of your free time and even some of your time dedicated to other things during this rush period. It’s just part of the game. Thankfully once this period is over you are no longer carrying around the old ball and chain. … or are you?
We are required to go to weekly meetings that usually do nothing more than cause headaches, anger, and boredom. Also you will be required to attend many social events. Social events do not sound bad… but sometimes they do get in the way of things (school anyone?). Before you go running the other way one really great thing I have found through my sorority are some of my closest friends! Mind you, had I not joined a sorority I wonder if I would be happy with where I was on the social scene? I have met so many more people since becoming a part of Greek life but I would definitely not say it was necessary. Especially at the financial aspect. I easily spend $700.00 a year on dues, t-shirts, fundraising, etc. (and mine is one of the less expensive ones!). So before you are ready to go Greek keep in mind that you are signing up for a very expensive social network!
Are you considering going Greek or have you already gone? Are you happy with your choice?
I want to know! E-mail me at jessical@collegeprowler.com or comment below.
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